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You will find me in your garden but I’m not grass
I move slowly (1 metre per hour) but I’m not a sloth
I have a shell but I’m not an egg
I leave a shiny trail but I’m not a slug
What Am I?
I am small but I am not weak (I can lift up to 10 times my body weight)
I am a creature of perseverance and resilience
I am slow and mellow, present in the moment
I am the humble snail

With the abundance of rain we enjoyed this summer you will surely have come across these gastropods or at least the glittering trail they leave as evidence of their nocturnal activities. You might not have noticed their 14,000 microscopic teeth but you will certainly have witnessed how effective they are in devouring anything you are trying to grow in your garden!

As far as I can remember I have always been fascinated by snails. For me, they embody gentleness in how they steadily move their body, their delicate eyes scanning the air and the beauty, harmony and mystery of their spiralling shell.

Life Lessons From a Snail

  • In a world continually speeding up, the snail invites us to relish the slow lane and cultivate the virtue of savouring all of life’s precious moments, with gentle yet steady and focused, movements.
  • Did you know that snails can sleep for up to three years? Self-care at its best. A big and bold reminder to prioritise our wellbeing. 
  • Self-sufficient, they carry their home wherever they go. Similarly our ‘shell’ is our collection of life experiences and knowledge. It grows with us and, we grow with it. 
  • Snails leave a silvery path behind them and, so do we. It is our legacy. What gentle trail do you leave for others to follow?

This October, I invite you to poke your head out of the “fast-pace-race” and, like the snail, take the time to contemplate. Move at your own pace. Look after yourself. Carry your shell of wisdom with awareness. Intentionally leave your mark and dare to be the change you want to see in your organisation, family, community and life!

Mathilde Barbier

Living gently, no matter what! Dare To Be The Change Today


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Who Am I? https://wellbeingmagazine.com/who-am-i/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=who-am-i Wed, 31 Jan 2024 09:00:00 +0000 https://wellbeingmagazine.com/?p=101602 This is a question that we don’t often ask ourselves, perhaps because we think we know already, though that’s not always true! Am I a physical product of my inherited genes? “Well, I am the physical product of my genes I inherited from my parents and ancestors!” No, that’s not true! It would only be […]

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This is a question that we don’t often ask ourselves, perhaps because we think we know already, though that’s not always true!

Am I a physical product of my inherited genes?

“Well, I am the physical product of my genes I inherited from my parents and ancestors!”

No, that’s not true! It would only be true if you had the same lifestyle, beliefs and thoughts of your parents in the same physical environment! 

The new science of epigenetics has proved that every gene has to be turned on by our environment; our internal and external environment.

So am I my personality?

“Okay, so I am “my personality”, how I relate to other people and events!”

No, that’s not true either! We are only consciously in charge of our thinking, behaviour and actions for about five percent of our waking hours and ninety-five percent of the time our subconscious is in charge, and that was programmed mostly by our families before we were seven years old!

Our subconscious brain can process over 20,000,000 environmental stimuli per second but our conscious brain can only process about 40 environmental stimuli per second!

Am I the person in my body?

“Ah! Yes, I know, I am the person in my body!”

No, I’m afraid wrong again! This will come as a shock to you and indeed to most people – your body is an amazing ecosystem that relies for its survival on a vast number of micro organisms.

Your own body is a community of 30-50 trillion cells containing 23,000 genes. That’s not enough genes to produce the vast range of proteins and nutrients your body needs. It is estimated we need over a 100,000 genes! 

Despite the fact we are top of the evolutionary tree we have fewer genes than many bugs or flies (a drosophila fly has 60,000!) Our genetic deficit is made good by hosting a vast population of bugs, bacteria, viruses, etc. that account for ten times the number of cells than in our bodies, accounting for over 300 trillion cells if we are healthy! So in fact we are only partially our body!

So who am I really? 

There is a meeting of ancient wisdom and modern science that is proposing the concept that our true self is our soul! This growing understanding has been supported with the advances in Quantum Physics and the “spooky” science that Einstein commented on. 

There is a growing belief that the fundamental “stuff” of our universe is not matter or energy but consciousness! You and your soul are part of this universal consciousness!

Now, that maybe too much to accept today, though it does take time for us to accept major shifts in our understanding – it took a few hundred years to accept the fact that the earth isn’t flat!

Perhaps we should all start thinking about trying to have a conversation with our real selves; chatting with our soul?

Like it or not we humans are the product of millions of years of symbiosis with nature. That’s how we invited all those microbes into our lives. When we live in contact and harmony with the natural environment we thrive.

Our greatest error has been to progressively separate ourselves from nature in sterile concrete urban environments and even see nature as the enemy with whom we have to wage war against, despite the fact that of the known 30 million bacteria only a hundred are potentially harmful! We attempt to eliminate the bacteria and other bugs with our antibiotics, industrial chemicals, our sterilisation of the processed foods we eat and even the cosmetics we use.

If we are to thrive and enjoy better health we all need to learn to live closer to nature in the future.

The old saying that “no man is an island “is indeed true. We are all connected to the whole natural world and the universe! That’s who you are!

Words: Michael Lingard BSc.(Econ.) Hons. DO BBEA Cert.PBNut (e-Cornell University)

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